You haven’t failed.
You can’t fail.
You’ll never fail.
Everything up until this very moment, have been experiences.
Experiences that are a part of your life story and it adds to the map of your life.
The map of your life (your lifes story) is full of instructions to help guide you on your way.
So you have not and never will fail.
Even if it’s in the same area of life that you feel like you’ve failed again, it’s not a failure and no part of it is wrong.
You let yourself open up to taking a step forward again.
You found the courage to try again.
Doesn’t that count for something…absoulfreaklutly it does.
That says more about you, than what your so called “failures” speak.
“Yeah but….”
“YEAH BUT WHAT?…”
So it didn’t go as you first planned, you took a turn that brought you to a halt, you feel you’re too far in now….NO!
What did you learn from it, what can you see what not to do again, what worked, what didn’t.
You can always do a U-turn, take another road (decision) and be on your way again.
Every experience, every situation, every condition, you allow yourself to step into, gives you more information about yourself, the world and life itself.
It’s what you do with that information next that is important.
Will you let it drop you down and harden you.
Or will you see it as the part that you needed to learn more about yourself, to better yourself, to see a part of you you hadn’t yet witnessed, so you can grow from it, change from it, accept it and at the same time, keep you soft or soften you even more, so you can take yet another step forward again.
The one who doesn’t let themselves harden, will keep moving, will keep finding the courage, will keep learning from their experiences and won’t let their past experiences dictate their future.
The world will be quick to point out your failures, will make you wrong for your choices because it doesn’t match the picture in their mind…that…or…it’s your strength, your curious, your try again attitude they see in you, which reminds them of what they’re not doing for themselves.
Is it better to be right or to be true to you!
I believe the truth is in the latter.
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Sep