We look often to all the things we should be doing to make life that much sweeter, adding this, that and the other to the list of things to be better, feel better. Often looking outside of ourselves to give us the boost we need. Looking to others to give us the feeling of being connected to ourselves, yet it’s only an illusion as the moment we are no longer connected to others we feel a disconnect with ourselves.
It’s the relationship that we have with ourselves that’s the real driver in all areas of our lives. The moment we feel disconnected is when our engine is not been taken care of. It’s when we start to lack energy, momentum, connection to the world around us, loss of clarity on our purpose in life.
The relationship you have with yourself must be of high value to you, you must look and ask yourself what it is you’re needing, wanting, expecting of others and begin to give this to yourself. The moment you start to value who you are and your life, you begin to adjust yourself. All areas of life will require a different part of you to show up, but you have it in you to get engine started to build that momentum.
Stop waiting on others to fulfil the parts you desire to experience in your life and begin to give back to you. The longer you wait on others, the longer you will be waiting and life will pass you by with no real living being done.
See the value in your body and give it the affection, the nurture, the movement, the kindness it deserves to receive.
See the value in your home and fill it with all that you love to see, hear, smell, touch & taste giving you an environment you love to sit in.
See the value in your work and give it the time, commitment, dedication it deserves to move you & others forward.
See the value in your finances, giving it direction so you can enjoy life and have it take you throughout your living years.
See the value in your time and begin to put your time into things that will elevate your life not take away from it.
See the value in experiencing life, seeing life and start taking yourself to places you desire to go & be. Sit down at your fav restaurant, with your fav meal & wine. Take yourself to the movies. Take yourself travelling, Take yourself dancing. Take yourself wherever your heart desires to go…but go, don’t wait.
It’s not about having the attitude of ‘I can do it all myself’ it’s having the attitude of ‘I value myself to live a fulfilled life’. The connection with oneself is the foundation to be able to genuinely connect with others, appreciate others, appreciate and love the world around us. When we’re unable to appreciate time with just ourselves & connect back to our centre, we will always be a little off track and expecting others to correct our course.
You are the engine to your life, you are the one who’s required to get it started, you are the one who’s to find the fulfilment for yourself…all other things are an added bonus, the cherry on top, the icing on the cake, cream of the crop.
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