Some days I just felt like clocking out…not of life, just for a few days or at times weeks.
There were times that were just so bloody hard, I didn’t know which way to turn.
Curly back up into my bed and talking to no one seemed like the best thing to do.
Some days I had it all together,
then other days, well…not so much.
It took a lot of energy to get myself out of a funk.
Stories would replay in my head, over and over again.
When I decided to turn things around, I’d have a good day.
Then a few bad days, another good day,
A few more bad days, a couple of good day,
One bad day, many more good days,
Before I knew it, I was having more good than bad days.
It’s so easy to look at others and wish you had a straight forward life like them, but what good is that, it will only bring you down even more.
Focusing on you & your life is where your energy is best used.
Nowhere else.
I still have days, when I feel like I’ve got it all together and others days, well…not so much.
But that’s the game of life.
With the good comes the bad,
and with the bad comes the good,
It’s just how you choose to deal with the shitty times that matters.
Do you have a story you’d like to share?
One that has seen you go through some challenging times but you’ve managed to turn things around?
I have received many amazing stories to be included in my coffee table book of women in New Zealand and would love to hear more.
